T for toblerone

I finally ate the white toblerone that has been sitting on my dresser for the past couple of weeks. Not eating it was supposed to stand for something, although I've never really figured out what it is supposed to stand for.

It took me less than 10 minutes to eat it. But I never really figured out why I wasn't eating it in the first place. Was I trying to be sentimental? Maybe. But then, why should I be? I don't even know what it really stands for. And I guess when it comes to 'toblerone', I'll never really come into any logical realization. I'll just have take it for what it is. It is a chocolate. A white chocolate. I like white chocolates. Therefore, I'll eat it. That is all there is to it. (ows?)

there's always THAT moment

"DAN: I fell in love with her, Alice.
ALICE: Oh, as if you had no choice? There's a moment, there's always a moment, I can do this, I can give in to this, or I can resist it, and I don't know when your moment was, but I bet there was one."- Closer

I really like this movie. Strangely for me, the movie was so refreshing. It was entirely different from the usual love movies that I've watched. I think it's because the movie was so close to reality. The characters were so shameless in being selfish. The movie was about selfishness at its ugliest! Love it! And did I mention that Jude Law is on it? =P

zombie mode

I haven't really decided on anything concrete yet. I'm no where near the conclusion. Why is it that other people are assuming to0 much already?

I think they are forgetting the fact that I am entitled to change my mind any time. Heck, I'm not even at the point where I am perfectly capable of deciding on anything concrete. Right now, I may be likened to a zombie, functioning like a human but then not entirely capable of feeling anything. And I guess that's the way I would be for the coming months. I guess I've set my mind already on that point. But don't get me wrong here. I haven't gone completely cold. I am still capable of feeling some emotions. Tiny kicks here and there that I can easily brush off. Just the way I like it for now!

So there's no really point in getting excited! Easy!

forced reflection about IT

I told myself I wouldn't think about IT while I still am trying to be somebody. But then, it is as if the circumstances lately are forcing me to think very hard about IT. I can't even say what IT is.

So okay, IT might have something to do with the L word. And I hate the fact that I should be thinking about it at this time of my life. I should really be focusing right now on being that somebody that I've always wanted to be. But by force of circumstances, I think I might have to spend some time thinking hard about IT.

What is really IT all about?

Well, to be perfectly honest, after being with someone and getting my heart broken for so many times I still haven't figured out what IT is all about.

All I know now is I need certain things, certain qualities before I can say that this is really IT.

You see, I'd like to believe that I am a special case. And that is not because I am walking around thinking I'm better than others. That's actually far from being the case.

To start off, I have a twisted family history with twisted characters on it. I need someone who could be able to understand that and won't judge me for that. Someone who would be able to accept me despite the fact that I would be pushing him to a bunch of crazies. Someone who could remind me that there is still hope for sanity for me even if I came from the house of crazies. To put it bluntly, I need someone with a strong stomach.

I guess that requirement alone would be enough to help me decide whether I found IT.

Not long ago, I would have said that I need someone who could make me truly happy. But then I've realized that happiness is simply a state of mind. We can actually easily convince ourselves that we are happy in any given situation. It's all in our minds. Happiness is simply a matter of choice.

Instead of looking for someone who could make us happy, I think it would be better if we look for someone who could hold us down whenever we find our lives being shaken. Someone who could pull us out from life's insanity and remind us that the craziness would end at some point. I don't need someone who could make me feel good about myself. I am perfectly capable of doing that by myself. What I do need is someone who would be there when the going gets tough. To put it metaphorically, I need my personal wall in which I can cling to whenever I am being shaken.

And now.. I am being cheesy at this point. =P

Anyway.. I guess that is all I can figure out now. The rest would have to wait.

torture me not.

Why is it that there are people who exist to torture us emotionally? Why do they have to pull you into their own pool of dramas over and over again?

Isn't the one time that I've been hurt enough? Maybe the problem is I never really showed what I felt. I tried to act as if nothing happened, as if none of those things mattered. Maybe if I had allowed my mask to slip that one time he would realize how much the whole situation hurt me. Maybe then, he'd realize that I should not be subjected to this kind of torture over and over again.

I do not want to feel anything. Not even hate. Hate is such a strong emotion and I do not want to waste any of my energy on such a negative feeling. I wish there was some way that I could make him see the whole situation through my eyes. So that he could realize that in all those times that he has seen hesitation in my eyes, I was simply thinking, "Is it for real this time or is this simply one of those bad replays that I should shrug off?" It was never really a question about feelings.

Emo!

I'll just kick myself now.

FACT: some stories have to be earned.

Narrator: As he listened, Tom began to realize that these stories weren't routinely told. These were stories one had to earn. He could feel the wall coming down. He wondered if anyone else had made it this far. Which is why the next six words changed everything.
Summer: I've never told anybody that before.
Tom: I guess I'm not just anybody.

time out from hell week

While I was in a coffee shop the other day, a little boy approached me and asked me if I was Ms. Tina. The boy was so cute and adorable that I wanted to say yes! I wonder who Ms. Tina is.. if she's his tutor I'd gladly replace her! haha

now.. back to hell... =P